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Sconnect and 10% tantalizing and thought provoking In some ways I adopted many of the tactics the author recommends rom the very start when I had my Lefty first child because I had no desire to be the perfect mother I just wanted to retain some semblance of myself while being a mother This meant dropping a lot of expectations that I didn tully believe in to start The disconnect showed up in various ways I was astounded that the author who meticulously plans meal preparation or a week didn t plan on how to take pumping breaks at work Five minutes of Googling will provide copious amounts of information on how to do this Even incredulous though was that she actually let the mail pile up or Shadow of the Vampire four months and let bills go to collections because she delegated with joy to her husband and was not going to undermine her ow Drop the Ball is a how to guide on having it all based on Tiffany Dufu s experience with her husband Iound myself as a modernyoungish woman nodding along with so many of her perspectives and experiences She explores how despite how Statistical Computing in C++ and R far we have come as a gender many of the household responsibilities stillall to women Even if men help out their contribution statistically is not 50% and this is not always their Human Aspects of Software Engineering fault sometimes women take on than they need to andor don t askor help The applications of this book are really just towards working women in a committed relationship with a man she acknowledges that the dynamics are different in same sex couples where both partners work outside the home One of the biggest i I guess I either didn t read the reviews well or took the title at How to Make a Plant Love You face value what I didn t want was a woman telling me her story and her thoughtsfeelingsdiscovery about the concept of having it all that womenall down the rabbit hole over I didn t get Cities and Dialogue far enough into it before I started skimming and therefore did not actuallyinish this book whose voice not literally I didn t listen to an audio drove me insane and I was already rolling my eyes after several pages It is a concept to be aware of the very nature that women must be all and do all and when they re not doing it they re still thinking about it But I couldn t connect and Christmas Doll found it irritating If there were practical applications asiderom her personal manifesto akin to steps actions and organization I would have been happier I wanted science and recommendations not a memoir. Also starting Dark Tide Rising (William Monk families Mounting responsibilities at work and home leave them with no bandwidth to do what will most lead to their success Offering new perspective on why the women's leadership movement has stalled and packed with actionable advice Tiffany Dufu's Drop the Ball urges women to embrace imperfection to expect less of themselves androm others only then can they ocus on what they truly care about devote the necessary energy to achieving their real goals and create the type of rich rewarding life we all desir.
D perhaps because they are terrified that taking a ew years off will The Queen from Provence (Plantagenet Saga, forever eliminate their ability to gain and sustain a professional job in perpetuity which again is depressingly realistic Western society may have accepted that pregnancy doesn t merit a compulsory resignation but it has not yet accepted that aew years of raising children Fearless Jack full time does not reduce all of a woman s education and skill to a worthless heap Most working mothers already do most of the things Dufu recommends such as abandoning perfectionism and control going to bed on time and delegating with joy When there s very little room to drop the ball at home it makes one wonder why it always seems out of the uestion to consider dropping it anywhere else The subtle message is that if women don t want high powered careers they don t belong in the workplace at all Where are the optionsor women who want to support their The Film Club families but don t have their heart set on making it to the top Why are our only choices goor the C suite or nothing Why is the trendy solution to the work life balance have your husband do around the house rather than negotiate a lexible schedule than prioritizes the health of a working mom and her amily Why is it working parents that have to drop the ball rather than their employers I wish that Dufu would have asked some tougher uestions that would have set her story apart rom Lean In This was an eye opener about some of my own habits in my marriage and I m glad I read this At heart it s a book about how women wanting it all put unnecessary stress on themselves and others to do so because that s what they ve been shown needs to be done Men on the other hand have been shown that they don t need to pick up the pieces or the slack Social conditioning So when a woman inally says that some of the things that don t take her to her highest and best self remembering to pick up the dry cleaning and tightening screws in the closet she can delegate those tasks and accept the The Success Secrets Of Brian Tracy - How To Achieve Your Goals And Be Succesful fact that her partner will do them they want he knows how to best do them That doesn t mean they make best use of his highest and best self but it does in the sense it gives him ownership of household maintenance too The takeawayor me on this one was accepting that I really wanted this book to be a life changer much like The Japanese Art of Tidying Up was to me Alas this book was 90% straight up di. Er and personal goals was an impossibility Eventually she discovered the solution letting go In Drop the Ball Dufu recounts how she learned to reevaluate expectations shrink her to do list and meaningfully engage the assistance of others Ninth Grade Slays freeing the space she needed tolourish at work and to develop deeper meaningful relationships at homeEven though women are half the workforce they still represent only eighteen per cent of the highest level leaders The reasons are obvious just as women reach middle management they are.
I Murder of Crows found this book disappointing probably due to the marketing as much as anything else I had seen this advertised as a measured response to Sheryl Sandberg s Lean In but it merely turned out to be Tiffany Dufu s version of the same story The endorsement by uiet author Susan Cain had me hopeful but while Dufu does spend a great deal of time discussing household communication the tales of her networking activities were than enough to make an introvert s head spin It s an amazingeat that she gets any work done at home or at the office between all the cocktail parties and coffee dates even if many of these activities are part of her job description and that of her husbandMany readers of Lean In complained that it was out of touch with non executive women In this regard Dufu deserves credit or eaturing a Silence in Hanover Close (Charlotte Thomas Pitt, few stories of average lower income women a bus driveror instance navigating the demands of unforgiving work schedules child care and household management But I wish she would have given them attention Dufu may not be a Google executive but her personal story had much the same thrust as Sandberg s with the drive The Complete Idiots Guide to Starting a Web-Based Business for a trophy career at its root even if that wasn t one of her explicit personal goals her story read this way to me While Dufu pushes the unrealistic dream of having it all to the side when it comes to dropping the ball there is only one arena in which that attitude is ever entertained the home It is always mail piling up home projects that settleor good enough but I didn t recall Dufu ever describing how she passed off organizing a big event to a colleague so she had a manageable load Perhaps this was merely the boundaries the book drew Tiểu phẩm báo chí for itself Ironically while Dufu is hyperocused on helping her readers break Icon free of the stifling pressure of the invisible homemakers meritocracy she merely advocates prioritizing one meritocracy the workplace over another the home I guess I was bound to be disappointed by a book that presumed all of its readers had their priorities in the same order but not without some obligatory lip service to diversity inamilies and social circumstances The main problem with this narrative is that it dismisses the many motivations mothers have Pillow Talk for working often than we d like to admit it is not primarilyor personal development though that is always a nice bonus but in order to pay the bills and support their Rikers High family an. A bold and inspiring memoir and manifestorom a renowned voice in the women's leadership movement who shows women how to cultivate the single skill they really need in order to thrive the ability to let go Once the poster girl Buried for doing it all after she had herirst child Tiffany Dufu struggled to accomplish everything she thought she needed to in order to succeed Like so many driven and talented women who have been brought up to believe that to have it all they must do it all Dufu began to eel that achieving her care.